It is very important to get verbal feedback from you. If the information that comes through resonates with one of your loved ones, you could say, “yes, that is meaningful to me” or “yes, I understand that.” And if the information doesn’t ring a bell with you – it is good for you to say, “no, I can’t take that.” The pieces of evidence that come in will help you identify which departed loved one is present. It is like pieces to a puzzle – it’s not a straight line of communication like talking to someone on the phone. They have to use my consciousness and use images, symbols, words, feelings, etc. to let me know who it is and what message they may have.
It can sometimes be challenging being the sitter (your role) as you try to take bits and pieces of information about someone coming in, interpreting the meaning and figuring out who it is. Often it is after the reading when a piece of information may make more sense, or when you talk to another family member or friend who also knew your loved one. But the goal of every reading is for the sitter to know that their loved one(s) is here.
